Love, a topic so abstract and subjective that until now I have found no true definition of it.

However, there are many things I have read about love and like. Here are some of the things I have compiled about it.



Love is a strange thing .......

 When I saw you...

I was afraid to talk to you...

When I talked to you...

I was afraid to hold you...

When I hold you...

I was afraid to love you...

Now that I love you...

I'm afraid to lose you...

Yesterday is history...

Tomorrow is a mystery...

Today is a gift...

That's why it's called a Present...


Sometimes love hurts...

But if it doesn't hurt...

Then it isn't love...

Hold on to the person u love...

Before they slip away...

Or else u can never get them back...


I was born when you kissed me...

And I died when you left me...

But I lived for the two months

U loved me...


Until there was you,

I cried my self to sleep...

While I had you, I fell asleep

With a gentle smile on my face...

Before I lost you, I worried myself to sleep...

Now that I know you're gone,

I sit up at night, waiting for u to come back...


When you think of your past love, you may view it as a failure. But when 
you find a new love, you view the past as a teacher. In the game of love, 
it doesn't really matter who won or who lost. What is important, is you 
know when to hold on and when to let go!

You know you really love someone when you want him or her to be happy, 
even if their happiness means that you're not part of it. Everything happens 
for the best.

If the person you love doesn't love you back, don't be afraid to love
someone else again, for you'll never know unless you give it a try. 
You'll never love a person you love unless you risk for love. Love strives in

If you don't get hurt, you don't learn How to love. Love doesn't hurt 
all the time. Though the hurting is still there to test you, to help you 
grow. Don't find love, let love find you. That's why it's called falling in 
love because you don't force yourself to fall. You just fall.

You cannot finish a book without closing it's chapters. If you want to 
go on, then you have to leave the past as you turn the pages. Love is not
destroyed by a single failure or won by a single caress. It is a 
lifetime venture in which we are always learning, discovering, and growing.

The greatest irony of love is letting go when you need to hold on and
holding on when you need to let go. We lose someone we love only when 
we are destined to find someone else who can love us even more that we can 
love ourselves.

On falling out of love, take some time to heal and then get back on the
horse. But don't ever make the same mistake of riding the same one that
threw you the first time. To love is to risk rejection, to live is to 
risk dying, to hope is to risk failure. But risk must be taken because the
greatest hazard in life is risk nothing!

To reach for another is to risk involvement, to expose your feelings is 
to expose true self, to love is to risk not to be loved in return.

How to define love:
Fall but do not stumble, be constant but not too persistent, share and 
never be unfair, understand and try not to demand, hurt but never keep the 
pain. Love is like a knife. It can stab the heart or it can carve wonderful 
images into the soul that always last for a lifetime. Love is supposed to be 
the most wonderful feeling. It should inspire you and give you joy and 

But sometimes the things that give you joy can also hurt you in the 
end. Loving people means giving them the freedom who they choose to be and 
where they choose to be. For all the heartaches and the tears, for gloomy 
days and fruitless years, you should give thanks, for you know, that there were 
the things that helped you grow. Loving someone means giving him the 
freedom to find his way, whether it leads towards you or away from you.

Love is a painful risk to take but the risk must be taken no matter how
scary or painful, for only then you'll experience the fullness of 
humanity and that is love.

Only love can hurt your heart, fill you with desire and tear you apart. 
Only love can make you cry and only love knows why. If you're not ready to 
cry, if you're not ready to take the risk, if you're not ready to feel the 
pain, then you're not ready to fall in love.

There was a time in our lives when we became afraid to fall in love coz
every time we do, we get hurt, then I figured that's why it's called 
falling in love.

When you decide to love, allow it to grow.
When you promise to love, refuse to let it die!

LOVE - What is it?

For all you people who say "I love you" when you

have no clue what love is exactly!!! Something to

ponder upon.....


Are your palms sweaty, is your heart racing and is

your voice caught within your chest??

It isn't love, it's like.


You can't keep your eyes or hands off of them, am I


It isn't love, it's lust.


Are you proud, and eager to show them off??

It isn't love, it's luck.


Do you want them because you know they're there??

It isn't love, it's loneliness.


Are you there because it's what everyone wants??

It isn't love, it's loyalty.


Are you there because they kissed you, or held your


It isn't love, it's low confidence.


Do you stay for their confessions of love, because

you don't want to hurt them??

It isn't love, it's pity.


Do you belong to them because their sight makes your

heart skip a beat??

It isn't love, its infatuation.


Do you pardon their faults because you care about


It isn't love, it's friendship.


Do you tell them every day they are the only one you

think of??

It isn't love, it's a lie.


Are you willing to give all of your favorite things

for their sake??

It isn't love, it's charity.



Does your heart ache and break when they're sad??

Then it's love.


Do you cry for their pain, even when they're


Then it's love.


Do their eyes see your true heart, and touch your

soul so deeply it hurts??

Then it's love.


Do you stay because a blinding, incomprehensible mix

of pain and relation pulls you close and holds you


Then it's love.


Do you accept their faults because they're a part of

who they are??

Then it's love.


Are you attracted to others, but stay with them

faithfully without regret??

Then it's love.


Would you give them your heart, your life, your


Then it's love.



WELL here's a few reasons why guys like girls...
1. They will always smell good even if its just shampoo
        2. The way their heads always find the right spot on our shoulder
        3. How cute they look when they sleep
        4. the ease in which they fit into our arms
        5. the way they kiss you and all of a sudden everything is right
       in the world
        6. How cute they are when they eat
        7. The way they take hours to get dressed but in the end makes it
        all worth while
        8. because they are always warm even when its minus 30 out side
        9. the way they look good no matter what they wear
        10. the way they fish for compliments even though you both know
         that you think she's the most beautiful thing on this earth
        11. How cute they are when they argue
        12. the way her hand always finds yours
        13. the way they smile
        14. the way you feel when you see their name on the call ID after
        you just had a big fight
        15. The way she says "lets not fight anymore" even though you know
        that an hour later you will be arguing about something
        16. the way they kiss when you do something nice for them
        17. The way they kiss you when you say "I love you'
        18. Actually ... just the way they kiss you...
        19. the way they fall into your arms when they cry
        20. then the way they apologize for crying over something that silly
        21. The way they hit you and expect it to hurt
        22. Then the way they apologize when it does hurt . (even though
         we don't admit it)!
        23. the way they say "I miss you"
        24. the way you miss them
        25. the way their tears make you want to change the world so that
        it doesn't hurt her anymore.....Yet regardless if you love them, hate them,
       wish they would die or know that you would die without them ... it matters
        not.  Because once in your life, whatever they were to the world they become
        everything to you. When you look them in the eyes, traveling to the depths
            of their souls and you say a million things without trace of a
        sound, you know that your own life is inevitable consumed within the
        rhythmic beatings of her very heart.  We love them for a million reasons,
         No paper would do it justice. It is a thing not of the mind but of the heart.