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HOUSE OF CONTRADICTION
Love
Love, a topic so abstract
and subjective that until now I have found no true definition of it.
However, there are many
things I have read about love and like. Here are some of the things I have
compiled about it.
Enjoy.
Love is a strange thing .......
I was afraid to talk to you...
I was afraid to hold you...
I was afraid to love you...
I'm afraid to lose you...
That's why it's called a Present...
But if it doesn't hurt...
Hold on to the person u love...
Or else u can never get them back...
I was born when you kissed me...
And I died when you left me...
But I lived for the two months
I cried my self to sleep...
While I had you, I fell asleep
With a gentle smile on my face...
Before I lost you, I worried myself to sleep...
Now that I know you're gone,
I sit up at night, waiting for u to come back...
When you think of your past love, you may view it as a failure. But when
you find a new love, you view the past as a teacher. In the game of love,
it doesn't really matter who won or who lost. What is important, is you
know when to hold on and when to let go!
You know you really love someone when you want him or her to be happy,
even if their happiness means that you're not part of it. Everything happens
for the best.
If the person you love doesn't love you back, don't be afraid to love
someone else again, for you'll never know unless you give it a try.
You'll never love a person you love unless you risk for love. Love strives in
hurting.
If you don't get hurt, you don't learn How to love. Love doesn't hurt
all the time. Though the hurting is still there to test you, to help you
grow. Don't find love, let love find you. That's why it's called falling in
love because you don't force yourself to fall. You just fall.
You cannot finish a book without closing it's chapters. If you want to
go on, then you have to leave the past as you turn the pages. Love is not
destroyed by a single failure or won by a single caress. It is a
lifetime venture in which we are always learning, discovering, and growing.
The greatest irony of love is letting go when you need to hold on and
holding on when you need to let go. We lose someone we love only when
we are destined to find someone else who can love us even more that we can
love ourselves.
On falling out of love, take some time to heal and then get back on the
horse. But don't ever make the same mistake of riding the same one that
threw you the first time. To love is to risk rejection, to live is to
risk dying, to hope is to risk failure. But risk must be taken because the
greatest hazard in life is risk nothing!
To reach for another is to risk involvement, to expose your feelings is
to expose true self, to love is to risk not to be loved in return.
How to define love:
Fall but do not stumble, be constant but not too persistent, share and
never be unfair, understand and try not to demand, hurt but never keep the
pain. Love is like a knife. It can stab the heart or it can carve wonderful
images into the soul that always last for a lifetime. Love is supposed to be
the most wonderful feeling. It should inspire you and give you joy and
strength.
But sometimes the things that give you joy can also hurt you in the
end. Loving people means giving them the freedom who they choose to be and
where they choose to be. For all the heartaches and the tears, for gloomy
days and fruitless years, you should give thanks, for you know, that there were
the things that helped you grow. Loving someone means giving him the
freedom to find his way, whether it leads towards you or away from you.
Love is a painful risk to take but the risk must be taken no matter how
scary or painful, for only then you'll experience the fullness of
humanity and that is love.
Only love can hurt your heart, fill you with desire and tear you apart.
Only love can make you cry and only love knows why. If you're not ready to
cry, if you're not ready to take the risk, if you're not ready to feel the
pain, then you're not ready to fall in love.
There was a time in our lives when we became afraid to fall in love coz
every time we do, we get hurt, then I figured that's why it's called
falling in love.
When you decide to love, allow it to grow.
When you promise to love, refuse to let it die!
LOVE
- What is it?
For
all you people who say "I love you" when you
have
no clue what love is exactly!!! Something to
ponder
upon.....
Are
your palms sweaty, is your heart racing and is
your
voice caught within your chest??
It
isn't love, it's like.
You
can't keep your eyes or hands off of them, am I
right??
It
isn't love, it's lust.
Are
you proud, and eager to show them off??
It
isn't love, it's luck.
Do
you want them because you know they're there??
It
isn't love, it's loneliness.
Are
you there because it's what everyone wants??
It
isn't love, it's loyalty.
Are
you there because they kissed you, or held your
hand??
It
isn't love, it's low confidence.
Do
you stay for their confessions of love, because
you
don't want to hurt them??
It
isn't love, it's pity.
Do
you belong to them because their sight makes your
heart
skip a beat??
It
isn't love, its infatuation.
Do
you pardon their faults because you care about
them??
It
isn't love, it's friendship.
Do
you tell them every day they are the only one you
think
of??
It
isn't love, it's a lie.
Are
you willing to give all of your favorite things
for
their sake??
It
isn't love, it's charity.
But....
Does
your heart ache and break when they're sad??
Then
it's love.
Do
you cry for their pain, even when they're
strong??
Then
it's love.
Do
their eyes see your true heart, and touch your
soul
so deeply it hurts??
Then
it's love.
Do
you stay because a blinding, incomprehensible mix
of
pain and relation pulls you close and holds you
there??
Then
it's love.
Do
you accept their faults because they're a part of
who
they are??
Then
it's love.
Are
you attracted to others, but stay with them
faithfully
without regret??
Then
it's love.
Would
you give them your heart, your life, your
death??
Then
it's love.
WELL
here's a few reasons why guys like girls...
1.
They will always smell good even if its just shampoo
2. The way their heads always
find the right spot on our shoulder
3. How cute they look when they
sleep
4. the ease in which they fit
into our arms
5. the way they kiss you and all
of a sudden everything is right
in the world
6. How cute they are when they
eat
7. The way they take hours to
get dressed but in the end makes it
all worth while
8. because they are always warm
even when its minus 30 out side
9. the way they look good no
matter what they wear
10. the way they fish for
compliments even though you both know
that you think she's the most
beautiful thing on this earth
11. How cute they are when they
argue
12. the way her hand always
finds yours
13. the way they smile
14. the way you feel when you
see their name on the call ID after
you just had a big fight
15. The way she says "lets
not fight anymore" even though you know
that an hour later you will be
arguing about something
16. the way they kiss when you
do something nice for them
17. The way they kiss you when
you say "I love you'
18. Actually ... just the way
they kiss you...
19. the way they fall into your
arms when they cry
20. then the way they apologize
for crying over something that silly
21. The way they hit you and
expect it to hurt
22. Then the way they apologize
when it does hurt . (even though
we don't admit it)!
23. the way they say "I
miss you"
24. the way you miss them
25. the way their tears make you
want to change the world so that
it doesn't hurt her anymore.....Yet
regardless if you love them, hate them,
wish they would die or know that you would
die without them ... it matters
not. Because once in your life,
whatever they were to the world they become
everything to you. When you look them
in the eyes, traveling to the depths
of their
souls and you say a million things without trace of a
sound, you know that your own life is
inevitable consumed within the
rhythmic beatings of her very heart.
We love them for a million reasons,
No paper would do it justice.
It is a thing not of the mind but of the heart.
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